The Trials and Tribulations of the not-so-New Bear Icon

Over the weekend Chris and I actually went out and were social. We skipped the True Colors tour on Saturday, though we knew people would would be there. I was a little wary of going out on Saturday night to the Denton County Bears pool party not only because I didn't know too many people who were going to be there, but also because i was a little mad from not being able to get a haircut. Yep, good old vanity. Seems like all the cheap ass haircut places were full of people, and after working yet another saturday morning, I really didn't want to have to wait around reading stale magazines waiting for the one or two people to finally get around to me.

Sadly, our friend the stylist has left the haircutting industry to pursue other interests. Good for his wallet, though. Good for our hair too, because although he's a friendly guy, he gets a little attention-deficit disorder when he's cutting and kind of forgets spots.

We made it out to the pool party fashionably late, but not so late to chow down (are we not bears?). I met some nice folk, didn't freak out once I got warmed up, and had a good time. On sunday our little neighborhood had a get together out by our pool. Again, it was tough to meet people I didn't know. Even after living here a year and a half, I really don't know any of the neighbors. Only one of them recognized me from walking Joey occasionally. Still, it was good to put some faces to townhomes around the area. People started to bring their dogs and eventually the dogs were swimming in the pool - and none of the people were. Joey stayed fascinated by the water, but didn't jump in. I'm not so sure she really cared for the other dogs, except for the big lab puppy who she felt needed to be put in his place.

I think it's both Chris' and my goal to be a little more sociable and get out more often. Over the last few months we've been homebodies and really haven't gotten out much. We do know people, people that haven't moved away, and maybe it's time we started calling a little more often around here.

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Otherwise, in one of those looking back themes that will crop up from time to time in these 40 days, I find that I don't watch old movies. Pretty much anything prior to Star Wars (1977) is out, and certainly anything in black and white. I know this leaves a ton of really great films out, heck, most of the AFI top 100 are pre '77, but there's just something about old movies that makes me want to go do something else.

This isn't the same for old television shows. I'll be happy to watch a black and white episode of My Three Sons, or Bewitched. I love watching reruns of The Monkees or Green Acres. Perhaps it's just the timeframe involved, 30 minutes vs. 90.

It's not that I've never seen an old movie, there's plenty of old Disney films I've seen, animated and not, say, the Computer Wore Tennis Shoes? There's also Song of the South which I saw on one of Disney's re-releases sometime in the 70's before they pulled the picture for good in the US. I wouldn't make a big effort to go see them again.

that's another part of it, I rarely re-watch movies. I see them once, maybe twice, and that's it. I don't buy many DVD's because I really don't re-watch them. Even my Kevin Smith movies sit in a box, unwatched. The movie I've likely seen the most is either Airplane or Sixteen Candles because they ran on Showtime all the time in the summer during high school. they seemed to show The Wiz a lot, too.

Part of this may be due to my Dad. He's such a fan of John Wayne and WWII movies that he'll re watch them over and over. I don't know how many times I've seen parts of The Fighting SeeBees or The Searchers or Force 10 From Navarone. I never saw Saving Private Ryan because it seemed like it would be the same thing all over again, just with Tom Hanks.

There's something about needing to move forward in movies that's bigger than my need to move forward in music listening. I love to find new music, and listen to what others of you are listening to, but I like to mix that in with favorites across the last 60-70 years. Movies seem to be more of an in-the-moment thing. I caught a few minutes of Deep Impact on cable the other day and I was already thinking that the movie looked dated.

I'm sure I could ask for, and get a hundred different classic movie selections, but really, I'll stick to trying to see new stuff and the movies i've missed over the last few years...like over the weekend watching The Italian Job, which was fun. Of course it's based on a classic Michael Caine movie that I really have no desire to see.

Of course that doesn't mean I want to see every remake, either. At this moment, I'm still thinking of skipping Hairspray.

Tonight I've been studying for my exam on the bed, and Joey the Dog decided to get up on the bed with me. Instead of just curling up next to me, she decided that it was time to be noticed, so she got in my face, pushed the book around, and barked several times. After being told by both Chris and I to stop barking, she kept going. Even minor amounts of petting weren't keeping her from wanting more.

After another round of barking, I told her, "Shut up Miss Coulter!"

Really, that's just the thing, just like Joey, the conservative pundit is just out there barking for attention. She's hoping that barking will lead to book sales and more speaking opportunities, as she doesn't seem to have much in the way of other talents. The more we pay attention to her, the more she gets.

Truly, the worst part is there are plenty who are listening to her every word. they love for her to be outrageous and go cackling on, since they think its 1) something they couldn't, or wouldn't say themselves. 2) something that validates their victimhood. Attacks like hers generally are applauded by those who feel that they've been hurt or wronged in some way by the other side. it's sort of the same thing as those who believe in the "War on Christianity" feel like their being persecuted by a minority and can't properly celebrate if it isn't done in a mass, publicly acknowledged way.

At the Conservative Political Action Committee Convention you have a lot of people still smarting from the Democratic majority in congress and a weakening president the attendees were just waiting for someone to come out swinging - but it wasn't going to be any of the candidates. Given that a word like "faggot" could sink a campaign in this exceptionally early race, none would actually say something like that. Heck, Senator Joseph Biden's campaign has practically been put to pasture by just mentioning that Senator Barack Obama was "clean".

So what to do? Send out the dog. Here she is, she has not political campaign to worry about, and she's preaching to the choir. She's the one who can be unleashed. Still, except for the attack on former Senator Edwards, what did she say? Little has been said about the rest of her speech, which I would guess was mostly about Democratic frontrunners Hillary Clinton and Obama as she said she didn't get a chance to talk about the other frontrunner.

My guess is that she hadn't gotten much milage about her views on the frontrunners, so why not throw out one big, nasty bomb at the end of the speech? This is from someone who has dogged World Trade Center widows, so what would be shocking?

It's the problem with current media that they keep falling for this shit. Look, someone said a naughty word, or shaved their head, or got caught with a bad drivers license or exposed their nipple? Come on people. Don't you know when your being used? We've got plenty of media whores around here, and a very big group of encouragers - Entertainment Tonight, Extra, Larry King, Nancy Grace, Bill O'Reilly, I could go on and on.

Sure, there's people who laughed. Heck, it's like a Bevis and Butthead level joke - there's little thought required. Ohh, look, she's so outrageous. Ohh, Zing! Big deal. Beyond the shock value, what is there of substance? It's the same of her colums or speeches. How many people really talk about her books beyond the outrageous blurbs on the cover?

Really, I've talked about this more than I wanted to, as I too have joined the ranks of people who've given her more attention than she deserves. While some of you may want to scream about putting this particular bitch on a leash, personally I'd be more satisfied if she was just spayed and taken off to the farm.

I have my own dog, and she's much more lovable and pleasant to be around, barks and all.

I'd really much rather be watching the Colt's Offensive Line and the Bear's Brian Urlacher playing with puppies.

The commercials haven't been that entertaining, but the rain has made the game interesting.