And you thought it was going to be easy? I've never seen a relationship where everything was perfect. Barak has the key, "communication." Not only email, journaling, phone and web cam, but being honest with each other.
You'll kill yourself if you keep on trying to make the journey every week. My former partner lived only 30 miles away...yet there were periods where we wouldn't see each other for months. If he had to go to another city or state to do a play...or shoot a film, there was just no other choice.
Don't be selfish about it (oh, I'm so lonely...I want to...Why can't he...), be appreciative of each other and when you are together that time will be of such high quality.
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Date: 2003-06-30 01:54 am (UTC)You'll kill yourself if you keep on trying to make the journey every week. My former partner lived only 30 miles away...yet there were periods where we wouldn't see each other for months. If he had to go to another city or state to do a play...or shoot a film, there was just no other choice.
Don't be selfish about it (oh, I'm so lonely...I want to...Why can't he...), be appreciative of each other and when you are together that time will be of such high quality.