For the Jury
Nov. 17th, 2004 12:00 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
eggwardsMaybe it's bear-run mentality. It's gotten into my brain in such a short amount of time.
Maybe there's just something to the fact that our lives aren't all about sex, but yet we're identified by our attraction more than other people.
Openness leads to the fact that attraction is there, but yet acting on it is completely up to you. You have the power.
Is it wrong that I might work sexual attraction into a model of friendship? Then again, I might not.
I find myself in the awkward spot of not necessarily defining a person by my attraction to them, but certainly creating a first impression that way. How do they look? Does that first glance cause a stirring somewhere lower? Am I a lower person for starting at that base level?
Will you judge me lower for starting there?
Maybe there's just something to the fact that our lives aren't all about sex, but yet we're identified by our attraction more than other people.
Openness leads to the fact that attraction is there, but yet acting on it is completely up to you. You have the power.
Is it wrong that I might work sexual attraction into a model of friendship? Then again, I might not.
I find myself in the awkward spot of not necessarily defining a person by my attraction to them, but certainly creating a first impression that way. How do they look? Does that first glance cause a stirring somewhere lower? Am I a lower person for starting at that base level?
Will you judge me lower for starting there?
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Date: 2004-11-17 11:26 pm (UTC)When I'm not feeling social, it's usually more of a bust... when I open up, it ends up being eight naked guys on the bed and floor with whipped cream, M&Ms, paddles, glow sticks and...
But I think your feelings are quite universal, gay or straight. We all want to know the pretty people. Many men want to screw everything, especially the pretty people. The privates do have a mind of their own and are higher in command than most men's brains.
The sexual aspect depends on the other person. I get physical with some who I consider friends...and have had physical relationships turn into friendship. I've had friends whose friendship went way beyond that... but I don't recall ever loosing a friend because of that.
Is it bad to defining a person by your attraction to them? You have to start some where.