Another Day

Aug. 4th, 2008 09:00 am
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The last weekend just confirmed that my 40's are here to stay.

41 seems to be such a non-event, and after the excitement of my vacation not so long ago, there really wasn't much to be done for my birthday. Although it's always nice to be acknowledged, I really didn't want to make a big effort or make a fuss.

Chris and I went out to Dave and Busters for a while and played some games. Chris finally got enough coupons to pick up Guitar Hero III for the PS3. I'm not sure how long he had been hanging on to all of those points. We came home and he played the game for a while while I napped. It truly was that exciting of a day.

Chris did cook for me last night. Note that this takes some measure of effort because I won't eat just anything. I'm super picky. Most of the recipes that Chris wants to cook he'd just be cooking for himself. I can only cook hamburger helper and mac and cheese, so I'm not much of a help as he's trying to eat healthier and trying to not eat out as much.

On Saturday we went to two pool parties. One was in the middle of the day, and I think it was a miracle that we didn't have a bunch of dehydrated men after the 105 degree heat and a lot of alcohol. It wasn't a party where I felt particularly comfortable as I think you needed a Big Muscle Bears Profile to get in. Normally those guys won't talk to me, and I make myself look more unapproachable as I sit silently amongst the crowd, with my shirt on. There were a lot of skimpy swimsuits, and plenty of good looking fur to watch, but I get ignored by most of the people. There were a few people I talked to here and there, so not a total loss. The hosts, however are very nice, and really put out quite the effort for these folks.

The evening's pool party was much more relaxed, thought the earlier party had me kind of closed in and anti-social. Still the people were friendlier and I actually did get into the pool this time. It made for a better evening.

My parents called me to wish me a happy birthday last night and my father and I got in an argument about politics. As much as my father tries to deny it, he'd just pushing the talking points he hears on talk radio: "We have plenty of oil if we'd just be allowed to drill it", "Alternative energy is dangerous and unreliable", oh, and my favorite "Obama is a communist" Really? A communist? I know you lived through the cold war, but I don't think you even know the meaning of the word anymore! Socialist, maybe, but not communist. I try to counter that the current administration is corrupt and a house cleaning is needed, but that doesn't seem to catch on. I said we needed to agree to disagree, and get off the subject.

So that's the excitement. Another birthday come and gone. Quiet and unassuming. For those who sent your wishes, thank you very much. I look forward to next year as I should be learning the secret to life, the universe and everything, right?
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"Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen." - Albert Einstein

I'm thinking with my upcoming birthday and my big trip into middle age (not the middle ages, that's what Renaissance Fairs are for), I probably need to go buy something expensive, silly, and something I'll possibly regret.

No, not that...I bought that last month, and frankly, I love it. No buyer's remorse there.

No. I really can't afford some shiny new sports car, or a motorcycle, or even a Segway (now that would be stupid). I know Chris wants a water-bike again, but that's Chris' thing not mine. We'll see about that in a few years. I don't need any new electronics or home theater or Playstation.

I guess it comes down to the other compensations for age...tattoos, piercings or leather. Hmm. I've never gotten a tattoo because I never found anything I wanted to have all the time on me (the extra weight was enough). Thank goodness I decided not to get the frat letters. I love my frat, but i don't need their letters on my ass.

Piercings make me squeamish and I don't know how well I'd heal after something like that. Love the look on some of you other boys, but I'm not sure it's me. Leather interests me, but I hate having to order the extra cow to cover me. It's expensive stuff that I would hardly wear, like my overalls or Utilikilt.

I find it interesting that I don't really collect anything anymore. i used to be a big collector, with probably my strangest collection being the Garfield Bookmarks. Remember when Garfield was funny? Yeah, in that couple of hours they managed to make over 150 Garfield bookmarks, and I had all of them. They were on a door in my room, just hanging there. Where other people might have a poster of Farah Fawcett or something, I had a door full of bookmarks.

I collected Star Wars toys and figures from when they first came out for Christmas 1977 (yes, I saved the proof of purchases for the Boba Fett figure) through the ones from the Empire Strikes Back. By that time I was buying my own - that and Atari games. My parents told me that I was too old for action figures, and I shouldn't buy the Return of the Jedi figures and toys, so I missed out on having a collection of Ewoks.

Of course a few years later I had a large collection of Star Trek: The Next Generation action figures. I fell right back into it. Unfortunately I really had no place to display all of it after my parent's changed houses and I lived in the dorms and in apartments in college. I ended up also picking up many of the DC comic character figures too. The Star Wars ones eventually got old off to pay for tuition one semester, but the Star Trek and DC figures still take up a large spot in the storage shed I rent with my parents. There's really no place to put them here at the house.

I never really collected movies, I don't watch them over and over, so it didn't become a big deal to buy them. The formats keep changing too, so what's the use? I don't really collect music as I just keep adding to what I've got to feed my interest. iTunes is like a big music Katamari.

I do still buy comic books, and over the last 25 years I have quite a stash, but I wouldn't say that I really collect them anymore. The oldest are nicely put away, stacked, bagged and even backed. after a while I didn't really see the point in doing it, so I don't take as much care with them now. I'm sure those who are serious would be appalled at the stacks i have in the back of closets and in the storage shed, but really, most of them I'll never read again, and aren't really worth much. unlike some guys, I was never going to send anyone to college on the basis of my collections. I just like to read!

So there we go. Maybe I just don't need any crazy thing right now. I should save my money for something better.

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