Cynicism Is Learned From Others
Oct. 24th, 2003 09:04 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
eggwardsI do feel sympathetic to panhandlers at times, but since my own finances are pretty tight, I really can't help anyone, besides the fact that my money could probably be better used by a charity that takes care of these people. Too many times I've seen or heard stories that many of these streetside beggars are using the system and may not be truly desperate. Some, of course, are insane, and it's sad that they aren't better taken care of. Few of them seem to really want to actually work, those that can...well, let's move on...
So, I live close to Houston's panhandling central, Westheimer and Voss. At any given time there is anywhere from one to five panhandlers, and a Houston Chronicle seller, which is one step up from panhandler. They even tag team at time, and you really have to turn all of your feelings off to ignore them. It's tough.
So today we have a pregnant mom who's panhandling. She has a sign that says she's 5 months pregnant, but she's huge, much more like 8 months. It kind of freaked me out that she was out amongst the cars of one of Houston's busiest intersections and it was around 80 degrees. I did feel for her until...
After she tried to stare me don, she flags down a guy passing by and gets a cigarette and a light! Besides the irresponsibility of this guy, I can't believe she's smoking!
Consider the sympathy over.
What a truly life-affirming week I've had.
So, I live close to Houston's panhandling central, Westheimer and Voss. At any given time there is anywhere from one to five panhandlers, and a Houston Chronicle seller, which is one step up from panhandler. They even tag team at time, and you really have to turn all of your feelings off to ignore them. It's tough.
So today we have a pregnant mom who's panhandling. She has a sign that says she's 5 months pregnant, but she's huge, much more like 8 months. It kind of freaked me out that she was out amongst the cars of one of Houston's busiest intersections and it was around 80 degrees. I did feel for her until...
After she tried to stare me don, she flags down a guy passing by and gets a cigarette and a light! Besides the irresponsibility of this guy, I can't believe she's smoking!
Consider the sympathy over.
What a truly life-affirming week I've had.
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Date: 2003-10-24 07:21 pm (UTC)And I'm a big old bleeding heart soft touch.
I give often. I notice I give more readily to people who are friendly about it. I don't mean "grateful," G-d forbid ... just somehow present, accounted for, and such. There's a guy in the area I'm starting to give to regularly. He just conveys somehow that I'm helping someone who actually benefits.