Thoughts on World AIDS Day
Dec. 1st, 2005 11:05 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
eggwardsIt's almost the close of another World AIDS Day.
As I've mentioned before, I've only been lightly touched by the disease, possibly because of coming out so late, and just not having the circle of friends that others had during the most difficult years. Of course the disease hasn't passed, and while things are more bearable in North America, that's not saying that this disease is not still exacting a terrible price across the globe. Many places are still quiet about telling their citizens how to protect themselves, or even details about the disease. Now education might be more difficult as attention turns to the disease of the season. Last year SARS, this year Bird Flu, next year, who knows?
I have friends who are living with HIV, I have known one person who has died from AIDS-related complications, a drum major in college. I hope not to lose more. For their sake and ours, I hope there's a cure and a vaccine, soon.
Still, with all the extra news stories and the attention payed to AIDS, i heard something I didn't ever expect to hear. President bust actually used the word "gay". While he was mainly focusing on his continued abstinence program (I'll save judgement for now) he did pledge to expand AIDS programs here and abroad, and praised the gay community for their continued work in battling the disease. Heck, how could we not?
Still, it's the actually the fact he used the word "gay" and not the more approved homosexuals. He's stayed away from "gay", let alone "lesbian" for his entire two terms since the conservative crowd doesn't like "gay". It's perceived as being too accepting of homosexuality and that just can't happen.
Of course the President had trouble pronouncing "condom".
one more little tale, a personal one. In my short time out, There's been a minor AIDS scare or two, besides finding out about one partner's status a while after, there was also the odd call I got one evening.
Now I do try to take precautions, either through practice or through prophylactics, but you know I prefer the term "safer sex" because you never know. Still, when I got the call, I was in a bit of shock. This guy was telling me that he had reason to believe that he might have been exposed, and that I might have been as well.
After the initial shock, I thought about it, and realized that it wasn't anything to be too alarmed about because we were both responsible, and I knew this person was of good character. I declined to ask him why he felt he may have been exposed, since it really wasn't my business. I thought at least he was honest, compassionate and responsible for calling me, even though he was still waiting on test results.
In the end it was a false alarm. My regular test has come back negative, and in begin in contact with him, so did his. A relief for us both.
Still, sex is risky business, and should be thought of that way, but we must all balance our lives between what we must be responsible for in life, and enjoy the true pleasures.
Today, remember, prepare and fight, hopefully tomorrow we'll be able to live freely
As I've mentioned before, I've only been lightly touched by the disease, possibly because of coming out so late, and just not having the circle of friends that others had during the most difficult years. Of course the disease hasn't passed, and while things are more bearable in North America, that's not saying that this disease is not still exacting a terrible price across the globe. Many places are still quiet about telling their citizens how to protect themselves, or even details about the disease. Now education might be more difficult as attention turns to the disease of the season. Last year SARS, this year Bird Flu, next year, who knows?
I have friends who are living with HIV, I have known one person who has died from AIDS-related complications, a drum major in college. I hope not to lose more. For their sake and ours, I hope there's a cure and a vaccine, soon.
Still, with all the extra news stories and the attention payed to AIDS, i heard something I didn't ever expect to hear. President bust actually used the word "gay". While he was mainly focusing on his continued abstinence program (I'll save judgement for now) he did pledge to expand AIDS programs here and abroad, and praised the gay community for their continued work in battling the disease. Heck, how could we not?
Still, it's the actually the fact he used the word "gay" and not the more approved homosexuals. He's stayed away from "gay", let alone "lesbian" for his entire two terms since the conservative crowd doesn't like "gay". It's perceived as being too accepting of homosexuality and that just can't happen.
Of course the President had trouble pronouncing "condom".
one more little tale, a personal one. In my short time out, There's been a minor AIDS scare or two, besides finding out about one partner's status a while after, there was also the odd call I got one evening.
Now I do try to take precautions, either through practice or through prophylactics, but you know I prefer the term "safer sex" because you never know. Still, when I got the call, I was in a bit of shock. This guy was telling me that he had reason to believe that he might have been exposed, and that I might have been as well.
After the initial shock, I thought about it, and realized that it wasn't anything to be too alarmed about because we were both responsible, and I knew this person was of good character. I declined to ask him why he felt he may have been exposed, since it really wasn't my business. I thought at least he was honest, compassionate and responsible for calling me, even though he was still waiting on test results.
In the end it was a false alarm. My regular test has come back negative, and in begin in contact with him, so did his. A relief for us both.
Still, sex is risky business, and should be thought of that way, but we must all balance our lives between what we must be responsible for in life, and enjoy the true pleasures.
Today, remember, prepare and fight, hopefully tomorrow we'll be able to live freely
![[identity profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/openid.png){kind=small}
no subject
Date: 2005-12-02 09:41 am (UTC)My only personal story was coming across a patient in the ER - he was in a coma while his partner stayed ever so close to his bed. I talked with him for a while, and you could see it in his eyes. He was exhausted, physically, mentally, spiritually. There was so much I wanted to tell him, to ask him, but I knew it wasn't my place. I helped move his partner up to the ICU, made sure everything was taken care of, and said my goodbye. I haven't seen either of them since.
no subject
Date: 2005-12-02 01:36 pm (UTC)I've learned a lot, and been through a few things, but truly I'm a novice in this world. As for AIDS, I just wasn't around a large group of gay friends when the disease was truly taking it's toll in this country. Medications have lessened the impact here.
no subject
Date: 2005-12-02 05:12 pm (UTC)I enjoyed your post.
As a straight man with many gay friends, I can relate to what you write. I share your opinions and thoughts.
I'd also like to friend you if you don't mind.
I enjoy what you write.
Oh...and count me among the 24% of Texans that aren't bigots!
no subject
Date: 2005-12-03 08:09 am (UTC)As far as Texans go, I think most follow that "live and let live" thought, but many times that doesn't mean a whole lot. As far as the Nov. 7th vote, the real bigots did come out to the pools, because they were convinced by charlatans that they would lose something - something that marriage equality won't change for them. Many, many others didn't find enough to actually come to the polls since they didn't really care about the issue.