The problem is, people define themselves outside of a relationship, then when they come together they think they can let go of everything they already are. (Whew, deep!) I would guess that it's better to come in honestly, stating this is who you are - you don't force the change for the relationship, you let the relationship change you.
And this is why people ask me for advice sometimes.
My problem is that I can't spend that much time with John T. Two different cities, different lives, and different time schedules (I'm days, he's nights). I'll try to do as much as I can to make it work.
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Date: 2002-12-06 10:54 pm (UTC)And this is why people ask me for advice sometimes.
My problem is that I can't spend that much time with John T. Two different cities, different lives, and different time schedules (I'm days, he's nights). I'll try to do as much as I can to make it work.
Yeah sex is a plus! :-)