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[eggwards]

What's worse? To have no standards at all, or to have high standards and always seem to be failing?

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[xtc-cub.livejournal.com]

No standards would be worse than high ones.

Also, placing your standards too high can prove fatal. We can't place the bar too high up or no animal would dare take the chance of jumping. The best thing to do is shoot for happy mediums first (or medium highs if your stove allows) and work from there.
Most people think standards should be a pole vaulting event. We aim the bar too high and when we land from missing the bar, we fall hard. Consider your standards more like a radio frequency. If someone doesn't hit your wavelength it's no ones fault. You are true to yourself and more people might end up feeling better about themselves.

Boy, I really do babble in the morning. Need more coffee.
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