Yeah, when it's still a very odd thing to have married men here, there is a difference in perception, not only from others, but I think in my perception of our relationship as well. There's always going to be some outsider status, almost outlaw kind of thing until there is true marriage equality here.

I have called Chris husband at different times, and that's the way I feel about him, but it still seems like we aren't supposed to use that.

i hope the trip to disney is a lot of fun!